Relationships

by don Miguel Ruiz with Janet Mills

We are born with the right to be happy and to enjoy life. We are not here to suffer; we are here to create and have fun. Whoever wants to suffer is welcome to suffer, but we don’t have to suffer.

Then why do we suffer? Humans ch...

by don Miguel Ruiz with Janet Mills

Today, Creator of the Universe, we ask that you help us to accept ourselves just the way we are, without judgment. Help us to accept our mind the way it is, with all our emotions, our hopes and dreams, our personality, our unique way of ...

by don Miguel Ruiz with Janet Mills

Many people come to me and say, “Gosh, I want someone who loves me. I want the right man or the right woman to come into my life.” Who is the right man or the right woman? It’s not about them; it’s about you. If that person comes...

Question:

I am doing my best not to take anything personally. I understand that it’s not about me, but when people criticize me or say something hurtful, I still feel really awful. What am I doing wrong?

Don Miguel’s Answer:

There is no...

Question: 

Does being impeccable mean that you always tell the truth, even when it hurts someone’s feelings? How can I be impeccable without hurting others?

Don Miguel’s Answer:

Well, you are also impeccable when you don’t put your nos...

by don Miguel Ruiz with Janet Mills

Forgiveness is an act of self-love. You must forgive those who hurt you, even if what they did to you is unforgivable in your mind. You will forgive them not because they deserve to be forgiven, but because you don’t want to suffer and...

by don Miguel Ruiz with Janet Mills

The fourth agreement — Always Do Your Best — is the one that allows the other three agreements to become deeply ingrained habits.

Under any circumstance, always do your best, no more and no less. But keep in mind that...

by don Miguel Ruiz with Janet Mills

For many of us, it is easy to give, but very difficult to receive. Yet gratitude for what we receive is one of the noblest gestures of humankind. The best way to show our gratitude is to receive the gift, and give our thanks by enjoy...

by don Miguel Ruiz with Janet Mills

Imagine that today is your wedding day, the beginning of a new life for you. You are getting married, and the expectation of joy and happiness is in your heart. Imagine that you are the bride, God is the groom, and you are ready to live ...

by don Miguel Ruiz with Janet Mills

Before you learned to speak, you loved with no effort, you forgave with no effort. It was natural to love; it was natural to forgive. But then you learned how to behave from other people who didn’t love, who didn’t forgive. Today, if...

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